Jason Lange on Enhancing Masculinity and Emotional Intelligence for Deeper Relationships

Author: Andrew Phipps
Published: Mon 23 Jun 2025
Episode Link: https://rss.com/podcasts/the-intimacy-inquiry/2082324

In this insightful conversation, relationship and masculinity coach Jason Lange discusses his journey from personal struggles with intimacy and emotional connection to founding Evolutionary Men, where he helps men navigate vulnerability, intimacy, and healthy masculinity.

Jason emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence, somatic therapy, and men's groups in cultivating meaningful relationships and overall wellbeing. The episode explores the impact of societal expectations on men, the role of evolutionary psychology in understanding male behavior, and the significance of teaching emotional fluency.

Jason also shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on creating safe spaces for emotional expression and how men can move from disconnection to connection. This discussion offers valuable insights for anyone looking to foster deeper, more satisfying relationships and emotional fulfillment.

00:00 Introduction to Jason Lange and His Work

01:11 Jason's Formative Years and Personal Journey

02:39 Discovering Emotional and Physical Connection

07:38 The Evolutionary Psychology of Masculinity

10:51 Challenges Men Face in Modern Society

24:32 Rites of Passage and Mentorship

30:05 The Importance of Emotional Fluency

38:55 Expressing Emotions Through Modeling

40:09 Creating Safe Spaces for Emotional Exploration

40:28 The Importance of Men's Groups

41:33 Handling Anger and Emotional Containment

43:09 The Mind-Body Connection