Ep213: You Don’t Need to Get Over the Hump. You Need to Get Inside Your Nervous System and Change the Pattern.

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In this episode, Mike shares a recurring theme that’s shown up across clients, conversations, and communities: “As soon as I get over the hump, I’ll finally be able to breathe.” With raw insight and deep spiritual guidance, Mike unpacks why that belief keeps you stuck in cycles of chaos and why real peace doesn’t come from solving problems — but from rewiring the nervous system and mastering your inner world. This is a wake-up call for anyone chasing external relief instead of building inner freedom.

Key Takeaways

1. Life Moves in Themes, Cycles, and Patterns
   We’re not alone in what we’re facing — the same energies show up in different forms for all of us.
2. You Don’t Need the Next Thing to Breathe
   If your inner world stays in chaos, your external life will keep inviting more chaos.
3. Your Personality Creates Your Personal Reality
   Thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and preferences — these form your internal environment and shape your world.
4. Rewiring the Nervous System Changes Everything
   Until you shift the inner signal, you’ll keep recreating the same patterns and pressures.
5. Peace Is a Skill, Not a Circumstance
   Mastering your internal world is the path to sustainable freedom — no matter what’s happening around you.

Notable Quotes

• “As soon as I get over the hump of this challenge, then I’ll finally be able to breathe again… and I said, yeah, yeah, I don’t think so.”
• “He is not wired for peace and harmony and freedom. He is wired for chaos.”
• “If you want to understand what’s happening inside of you, look at your circumstances.”
• “You literally experience your life and you create your life from what’s happening in your nervous system.”
• “Nothing outside of you is real. It’s just an out picturing and a projection of who you are. Change who you are and everything in your life will change — only every single time.”

Call to Action

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Stop waiting to get over the hump. Rewire the pattern now.

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Mike Kitko is an executive self-mastery coach, speaker and author. He found external success through powerful titles, incomes, and material possessions. He ultimately fell into depression, toxic abuse of alcohol, and the near collapse of his family before he began a journey of internal happiness and success.