When you are in a new situation, what do you do? Do you cling to others to support you? Do you tough it out and go for it anyway? We all have ways of coping with new stressful situations, some avoid, some confront and some get clingy and needy on others. In today's episode I talk you through a situation at my speakers club and the reaction from two people new to it. Hint: though standing in front of others can be scary, this is not the real reason why you are scared. Listen to what is and what you can do to stop the fear.