Million Dollar Listing's Tracy Tutor: 30 Years of Our Friendship, Power Moves, & Owning Every Room

Before she was a bestselling author and the breakout star of Million Dollar Listing LA, Tracy Tutor was one of my college besties—and one of my closest friends for over 30 years.

In this deeply personal and totally unfiltered conversation, Tracy and I go beyond the designer labels and real estate deals to talk about what it really takes to build confidence, reinvent yourself, and stay rooted through decades of friendship, love, success, heartbreak, and power moves.

We’ve evolved, built empires, and stood beside each other through every chapter—triumphs, breakdowns, bad decisions, good sex. All of it.

This isn’t just another interview. It’s the kind of say-the-thing conversation you only get after 30 years of receipts, trust, and real loyalty.

And yes—she spills about the hot 20-something Gen Z heartthrob who slid into her DMs. Let’s just say…..well, you'll have to listen

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Links referenced in this episode:

• tracytutor.com
• instagram.com/tracytutor
• tiktok.com/tracytutor

Takeaways:

• Establishing and maintaining friendships in midlife requires open communication rather than silent expectations.
• In your 40s, it’s crucial to prioritize self-care and not feel guilty about putting yourself first.
• True friendship means understanding that you won't always be on the same page but can pick up where you left off.
• Women should embrace their worth and own their identities without the need for approval from others.
• Midlife can amplify feelings of loneliness, so it's essential to seek community and support from friends.
• Being vulnerable and asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness, especially in challenging times.