EP 2433 - Why I Reply on Ashley Madison When I'm Not Looking

In this episode of The Teresa Pod, Teresa dives into the surprising reasons why she replies to men on Ashley Madison, even though her profile says not to message her. She shares insights on the types of men who ignore her boundaries, their confidence, and how she finds curiosity in their persistence. Teresa also discusses how she keeps her profile active for professional purposes, and why some men stand out while others get immediately blocked.

Key Takeaways:

• Confidence and curiosity make certain men stand out, even when they ignore clear boundaries.


• Teresa replies to men because she enjoys seeing who has the guts to push through her tough profile.


• She keeps her Ashley Madison account active to review clients' profiles and offer advice on how they present themselves.


• Men who follow her advice stand out by being genuine and respectful, rather than overly sexual or arrogant.


• Standing out on dating platforms isn’t about luck—it’s about having an interesting profile, being polite, and sending thoughtful messages.

Quotable Moments:

• "I tell men, if everyone’s wearing a green shirt, wear a red one. Stand out."


• "Some men show confidence and curiosity, and that’s what allows them to break through."


• "I never lead anyone on—I’m here to help men improve, not to play games."

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