EP 2418 - Should You Find an Affair Partner in Real Life?

In this episode, Teresa dives into the question of whether it's a good idea to seek out an affair partner in the real world, based on a client’s dilemma. He’s noticed a woman who smiles at him on his commute, and wonders if he should approach her. Teresa breaks down the risks of pursuing someone in real life versus finding a safer match through an affair app.

Episode Highlights:

• Client’s story: Is the woman on the train just friendly or potentially interested?


• The risks of "traditional" affair partners, like neighbors or co-workers.


• Why meeting someone in real life makes it harder to read intentions and increases chances of getting caught.


• OPSEC (Operational Security) and why using an app is the safer bet.

Key Takeaways:

• Apps remove the awkward “Are you interested in an affair?” question.


• Real-life connections overlap social circles, increasing exposure and risk.


• Avoid traditional affair partners to minimize gossip and suspicion.

Quotable: “Luck is not a strategy. Finding an affair partner on an app reduces risk, while real-life encounters are a gamble.”

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