EP 2407 - When to Message Back Without Appearing Needy

When to Message Back After Silence - The Teresa Pod

In this episode of The Teresa Pod, host Teresa Conway tackles a frequent dating challenge: deciding when to send a follow-up message after getting no response. Teresa shares valuable strategies for handling the silence with confidence, ensuring you maintain interest without appearing needy.

Episode Highlights:

• How to time your follow-up message after a conversation stalls.


• Balancing interest with self-respect in your messaging.


• Strategies to keep communication light and pressure-free.


• Understanding the importance of acknowledging busy schedules.

Key Takeaways:

• Wait a few days before reaching out again, considering her potential obligations.


• Mention that you’ve been busy too, keeping the tone natural and balanced.


• Avoid passive-aggressive comments and maintain a noncommittal vibe.


• If she's interested, she’ll return; don’t risk pushing her away by over-messaging.

Quotable: "Relax, because if she's interested, she will come back. If she's not, there's nothing you can do about it."

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