EP 43: What Did I Do To Deserve This? From Victim to Victor

TRIGGER ALERT!  Child molestation is discussed in depth in this episode.  The molestation happened 50+ years ago.  The person accused of being molested is deceased.

DESCRIPTION:  The Hilarious Hypnotist's friend, Ninalynn, has experienced a series of horrible events.  In September of 2022, she unexpectedly lost her son-in-law due to a massive heart attack.  He left behind a daughter (Ninalynn's granddaughter).  A few months later, Ninalynn had to testify that custody of her granddaughter should be given to her son-in-law's parents instead of her daughter, because her daughter married a child molester.   She was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis this past November.  A month later, she was told she had kidney cancer, only to find out she was mis-diagnosed and had extreme calcification on her kidneys instead.   As Traci digs into Ninalynn's past, she discovers that Ninalynn is experiencing heightened stress thanks to a molester in her past.  In this episode, Ninalynn reveals many details about her molester while Traci quickly works to dissolve the pain, guilt, and shame surrounding her circumstances.

KEY POINTS: - Ninalynn talks about being molested by a family member, from the age of five to sixteen. -She admits being angry with her mother, because she suspected she knew what was going on. -Ninalynn is angry with herself, because she never told anyone what was happening.  She didn't tell anyone because her uncle threatened he would hurt her mother and sister, and turn them against her if she told. -Ninalynn realizes she was being psychologically manipulated and trained.   QUOTABLES: "I should have been strong enough to be able to say something to anybody, and know that other people in the family saw something, but I wasn't too sure. "At that time, I started hating myself because I was accepting his molesting.  I was going to him and saying "Hey, I want to go out drinking tonight.  Buy me some alcohol and I'll trade.  I was 16." "What have I done to deserve this? Why is God punishing me?"

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