The pursuit of happiness! We often wait for external events to make us happy. We place the burden of our happiness on someone or something outside of us.Working with couples getting married and couples in their early years of marriage, I find that they expect their partners to bring them happiness. And they also expect that be married guarantees automatic happiness. If you are married, you already know that it just doesn't work that way. Not at all! Marriage is really like an empty box. ...