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The best question to ask if you're struggling

Author
Michelle McQuaid and Evie Wright
Published
Mon 01 Jul 2024
Episode Link
https://michellemcquaid.substack.com/p/the-best-question-to-ask-if-youre

When you’re struggling what do you say to yourself? Studies suggest many of us say horrible things to ourselves in these moments like: “You're so stupid!”, “You’re such a loser!”, “No wonder no one loves you!" or worse. But what's the best question to ask ourselves in these moments?

[2.40] The most common tool women report using to break free of their 'good girl' beliefs and embody their unique selves.

[3.33] A-ha #1: Why do women tend to be more self-critical than men?

[6.40] Tool #1: How we can Shuffle The Script to help extend more self-compassion.

[8.37] A-ha #2: The benefit of avoiding beating ourselves up for beating ourselves up

[12.50] Tool #2: How to Take An Oxytocin Shot when you need to reach for self-compassion.

[14.40] A-ha #3: The best question to ask when we're struggling to feel safe, calm, and supported.[19.30] Tool #3: How to set and honor healthy boundaries with others.

[25.46] The after-show confession



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