WANT vs. DON’T WANT

Complaining about complaining is still complaining. Are you telling others what you want or what you don’t want? 

If you want something different, choose something different. This episode was inspired by a discussion I was having with my boyfriend and I was aware that I sooooo wanted to yell and tell him what I didn’t want. And I knew that that was NOT going to create more for us. It would just create a fight. 

I chose different and continued explaining to him what I DID want and not what I didn’t want. It changed the dynamic of the conversation and made the interaction so much clearer and cleaner for both of us. 

KEY EPISODE QUESTION TAKEAWAYS:

• When you’re communicating with another person, communicate what you WANT. 
• Notice the difference in your relationships when you tell someone what you want vs. what you don’t want. 
• How to get clear on what it is that you want from someone else. 

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