How to Serve Your Family Without Getting Walked On | EP. 4

"Servant Leadership" is redundant. A leader IS a servant.

So, why are so many men obsessed with making sure everyone knows that they are specifically a SERVANT leadership?

Because we have collectively believed the Satanic lie that leadership is bad, authority is bad, husbands shouldn't be the head of their wife...the list goes on.

We think the only way to lead in our families is to be a lap dog. To say "yes, wife". To ask, "how high?" when your wife says "jump!".

Whether you're too scared to call her out for being lazy and selfish, or whether you're the one acted lazy and selfish by abdicating leadership to her, it's time to start giving a rip about your family and about the fact that you're accountable to God for your household.

This episode tears down the reasons why you might find yourself in this situation, AND gives you practical tools and advice for righting past wrongs and starting to captain your ship.

In This Episode:

0:00 Intro

1:08 What guys get wrong about servant leadership

3:45 Should "Leaders Eat Last"?

7:15 The consequences of taking "servant leader" way too far

10:31 How to show servant leadership without losing strength

15:26 What to do if your wife is walking all over you

25:19 The solution to your emasculation problem

31:17 The secret hack...

33:53 What sales training can teach you about being a man worth following

Mentioned:

Leaders Eat Last by Simon Sinek

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Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.