Season 3 Episode 15: “Just Don’t EFFing Try to Appease Everyone!”

In this episode, we speak with Starlyn Cafferata, a madre of 5, who decided to say EFF IT to all the expectations that she had placed on herself before having kids about what kind of mom she was going to be.  And, she REALLY let those expectations go when they found out that they were pregnant for the second time with quadruplets! That’s right….4 babies at the same time!  She realized that there was no way of holding on to any of that and be a happy mom.  So, once she let all those expectations go, she became a lot more happy, and laid back and could find humor in all the chaos that come with having 5 kids.  You just have to EFFing do what works for you and your family and not listen to all the outside noise. You can’t and will not please everyone.  And, the only people that matter are your loved ones who are the closest to you..  Everyone EFF off! To keep up with Starlyn and her family’s journey, go to Instagram and Tiktok and follow her at @caffsquad.