In this episode, we speak with Romi's madre, Ann Stemmer. At 29, she had given birth to her third child, Andy, whose doctors said that because of how severely disabled he was, she should put him into an institution. But, she said EFF IT, and went against all the advice given to her because she knew in her heart that her son would succeed. And he has! Now at 34 years old, Andy has defied all the odds. He plays sports, loves to dance and loves the ladies. You just have to EFFing believe, do your research and focus on what can be done versus what can't be done. To help families find resources for intellectual and developmental disabilities in children, please visit https://www.harborrc.org/ for more information.