The Dildorks

This week, we give more advice on play parties, including how to become a DM, how to approach a stranger for play, and how to take care of yourself emotionally during an event.
 

Flirting & Professiona…

Party time! This week, we discuss etiquette and preparation for attending a play party, whether it’s sex-focused, kink-focused, or both.
 

Sex as a Hobby | Beginners | Verbal vs. Non-Verbal Communicati…

We always love learning about interesting fetishes, and this week we’ve got a bunch of juicy ones to discuss, from bomb-shaped women to pig-shaped men.
 

Explodey Babes | Bi Confusion | Pig Transformat…

Watching movies and TV shows with a partner can be surprisingly bonding and eye-opening! This week we discuss the ways our relationships have benefited from enjoying media with partners.
 

Talking Duri…

This week we dig deeper into the subject of sexual selfishness, answering questions like: Can it be selfish to give pleasure? How can you satisfy a stone person? And is there really a top shortage?
 

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What does it mean to be selfish in bed, and is it always necessarily a bad thing? This week we discuss our relationships to “selfishness” and receiving pleasure.

Bottoming vs. Being Selfish | Negativ…

Talking about sex is hard, which is why so many sex educators try to “meet people where they’re at,” a concept we unpack this week to help you have better conversations about sex.
 

Zero Tolerance vs. …

This week, we celebrated International Kissing Day by answering listener questions about kissing!
 

“We Should Make Out” | Hormone Changes | Kissing Men | Consent-Asks | Feeling Overwhelmed | Toys & Pr…

This week, while Kate’s moving from Toronto to New York, Billy chats with his partner Dee Darkholme about THEIR recent move, and what it’s been like adjusting to living together with Dee’s other part…

How do you get over a friend who doesn’t like you back? This week, we wade deeper into the topic of unrequited feelings within a friendship.
 

Crush Eras | “The Friendzone” | Straight vs. Queer Scripts…

What happens when you catch feelings for your friend? This week, we discuss the tricky art of keeping a friendship afloat while attraction rocks the boat.
 

When Feelings Dissipate | Developing Feeling…

Friendships with benefits are an important part of our sexual landscape, so this week we discuss how to navigate casual ongoing sexual partnerships with kindness and grace.
 

FWBs vs. Fuckbuddies | Dem…

Sexual pleasure can be wonderful self-care, even during some low-libido times. This week we discuss our favorite methods of sexual self-care.
 

Happy Pride Month! | Not Jerking Off | Perfunctory Mastur…

This week Kate chats with her wife mb about how HRT (hormone replacement therapy) can affect transfeminine people’s skin sensitivity, orgasm intensity, desire levels, and more!

Your Mileage May Vary |…

Happy Masturbation Month to those who celebrate! This week we’re answering listener questions on jerkin’ it.

Want to Want It | Solo Pain Play | Masochism vs. Self-Harm | Fantasies Making a Comeback | …

Living with your polycule: bad idea, or best idea? This week we discuss the emotional and practical realities of Billy’s recent decision to move in with his partner and metamour!
 

Kitchen Table Polyam…

This week, Kate chats with friend of the show Addison Finch about the ritual and reverence of bootblacking, and what we can learn about our current political moment from studying the history of kink.
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As is tradition, this week we celebrate 4/20 by getting intoxicated and answering silly hypothetical questions about sex.
 

Last Prisoner Project | Movie Quotes | Cooking Implements | Tantus Plunge | B…

Whether you prefer to plan dates or have them planned for you, a date’s location or activity can play a big role in how well it goes – so this week we discuss how to successfully plan early dates wit…

Lots of people like to incorporate multimedia into their sexting, so this week we discuss the benefits of sending voice memos and provocative pictures, among other things.
 

Eggplant Emoji | Shy Texter…