Confidence is not unfeeling arrogance or the absence of your fear but mastery of it with courage, to be you in the spotlight’s glare. To be who you know you already are because you’ve proven it to yourself; confidence is learnt, not ingrained or given by someone else. It’s fear that’s stopping you from being yourself in the wider world and that's damaging over time, but stand front and centre, look down life’s lens, be yourself and you’ll be fine.