Ever powered up into an orgasm—only to trip the breaker on your clit or dick because things got too intense? In this episode, we talk about what happens when the clitoris or penis gets overstimulated to the point that everything has to stop. Honestly, this has become the norm, what's expected, the old one-and-done orgasm. What else is there, right?
We break down the concept of the “sexual breaker,” why overstimulation happens (especially to the clit), and how the experience mirrors the refractory period men experience. But here’s the thing: we’ve learned that this power outage doesn’t have to happen—not for her, not for him, not for anyone.
With the right warm-up, attunement, and communication, you can create an experience that powerfully flows for hours with multiple orgasms (for penis owners too) instead of short-circuits. Whether you're a vulva owner or a penis owner, understanding why your body cuts the power—and how to prevent that from happening—will produce sustained, incredibly powerful—even electrifying—orgasms.