The Cliteral Truth Podcast
Welcome to The Cliteral Truth-the podcast where we sit around naked and talk about sex, dating, and relationships.
We're Lexie and Ryan!
When we met, we quickly realized we share a passion for sex. We believe when it comes to sexual knowledge and performance, we're in the top 1%. Sex is our zone of genius. And after experiencing each other's aptitude and prowess, we gradually conceptualized our vision of helping others find that passion and master their own sexuality.
Website: thecliteraltruth.com
Instagram: the.cliteraltruth
Disclaimer:
The Cliteral Truth offers coaching and educational services focused on sexual wellness, intimacy, and similar topics. Our content is intended for adults and is provided for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or professional therapy services. Always consult your physician or mental health provider if you have concerns related to your physical or emotional health. Participation in our courses and coaching is voluntary, and we encourage respectful, trauma-informed engagement. No physical demonstrations or touch are involved in our offerings.
- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 35 minutes
- Episodes
- 50
- Years Active
- 2024 - 2025
50. WTF Is Sex Appeal?
Why do some people—without trying—pull attention like a gravitational force, while others, just as beautiful, go unnoticed?
In this episode, we dive into the intangible but unmistakable …
49. Sexualization vs. Oversexualization
A grown-ass woman being shamed in public for what she's wearing...
This episode is a full-on truth bomb about how society polices bodies, labels sexual energy as “inappropriate,” and co…
48. Keeping the Heat in Long-Term Relationships
How do you keep the fire burning when you’ve been with the same person for years—or even decades? In this episode, we dive into Esther Perel’s wisdom on sustaining passion in long-term …
47. The Relationship/Sex Trope IRL
You’ve seen it. You’ve probably lived it. The classic relationship/sex trope—where women seem desperate for a relationship and men seem desperate for sex—playing out in real time. In th…
46. The Hypersexualization of Female Breasts
Why is it totally normal for men to walk around shirtless—but women get censored, scolded, or even arrested for the same thing? In this episode, we chat about the double standard around…
45. Why Women May Not Want-or Like-Sex as Much as Men Do
In this episode, we discuss the real culprits behind low libido in women: the crushing weight of the mental load, hormonal shifts and body changes (including menopause), and the long-la…
44. Is Your Partner Your #1 Priority?
Ever felt like you're coming in fourth place in your own relationship? In this episode, we’re calling out a common dynamic that quietly kills connection: when your partner isn’t your to…
43. How To Use Relationship Types IRL
From late-night hookups to long-term partners, relationships come in all shapes, vibes, and complexities. In this episode, we break down the real-life differences between hookups, fuck …
42. "What are you looking for?"
On this episode, we discuss why this seemingly innocent first-contact question can derail authentic connection before it even begins.
We talk about the pressure to define your entire rom…
41. The Relationship Between Mental Load and Arousal
Carrying mental load isn’t just exhausting—it’s arousal’s silent killer. In this episode, we unpack how the never-ending cognitive effort of planning, monitoring, assigning, managing, a…
40. How To Do a Bridge Inspection: The 7 Bridges of a Solid Relationship™ IRL
In this episode, we put The 7 Bridges of a Solid Relationship to the ultimate test—real life. Ryan opens up about the relationship that inspired the entire 7 Bridges framework and walks…
39. Why That Little Pill Isn't Solving All Your Sex Problems
In this episode, we explore the widespread belief that a little blue pill can solve everything in the bedroom. It’s not that simple. While Viagra (and similar ED medications like Cialis…
38. Squirting
There’s not a lot of information out there about squirting. Most of what’s online barely scratches the surface. So in this episode, we deliver.
We share what we’ve personally learned and…
37. Bridge 7 - Secure Base™
In this episode, we cover Bridge 7 of our 7 Bridges framework: Secure Base. Unlike the other bridges, Secure Base isn’t worked on directly—it’s what naturally emerges when the other six…
36. From Shirtless to Scandalous: The Power of Context
Why is a man shirtless at the pool totally normal, but wearing a BDSM harness in public is inappropriate? It's not about the skin. In this episode, we expose the power of context—how cu…
35. Relationship Types
Are you stuck in the mindset that every person you date has to be your everything or nothing? Are you in scarcity mode or abundance? Do you have an agenda with dating? Are you hoping ev…
34. Society's Position on Masturbation Throughout the Ages
In this episode, we dive deep into the fascinating (and oftentimes cringe-worthy) past of self-pleasure, from the days when it was considered a dangerous defect to today’s era of self-e…
33. All About That Clit
Think you know the clitoris? Think again. In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the real history and anatomy of the most misunderstood organ in human existence. Spoiler alert: …
32. Good Vibes Only
In this episode, we’re bringing you all the buzz as we thrust into the fascinating history of dildos and vibrators — from ancient brass, wood, and leather tools (yes, really) to the pow…
31. Bridge 6 - Intimacy™
In this episode, we break down Bridge 6 - Intimacy—and no, we’re not talking about sex. Sex is a physical exchange. Intimacy is an emotional exchange. The two sometimes overlap, but not…