The Challenger Podcast

The Enneagram 9, often called The Peacemaker, is known for their calm, grounded, and accepting nature. But what does this really look like in a relationship — when it’s healthy, when it’s struggling,…

This episode explores how the Enneagram 8 shows up in relationships; the good, the bad and the ugly with real life examples from remodeling a bathroom to fostering a dog... all in the same week!

As a…

As an Enneagram 8 father, you're wired for strength, protection, and relentless loyalty to your family. But what happens when that loyalty causes you to neglect your own needs? In this episode, we ex…

As an Enneagram 8 father, your strength and protectiveness are incredible gifts—but not every child experiences that big energy the same way.

In this episode of The Protective Leader, we explore how …

This episode explores parenting and nuturing your child's indivuality through the powerful lens of the Enneagram Type 8—often known as “The Challenger.” Known for strength, assertiveness, and protect…

This episode explores how Enneagram 8 fathers can build deeper emotional connections by developing trust, tenderness, and emotional fluency—without feeling like they’re giving up strength. It’s a vul…

This episode explores fatherhood and leadership through the powerful lens of the Enneagram Type 8—often seen as “The Challenger.” Known for strength, assertiveness, and protectiveness, Type 8s are na…

In today's episode, I will walk you through how to use the Ennegram as a tool to show up more authentically at work, with family and in relationships. Have you heard of The Enneagram?

 Today, I will …

Do politics and dating go together? Some would say avoid talking about politics at all costs on a first date.

Others may try to convince you that discovering that about your date as early as possible…

Kyle Weiger, hand balancing coach and good friend, joins me on the podcast today to talk about the home buying process, moving, job changes, sobriety and the Presidential Debates.

If his message reso…

How do you set your intentions before you begin online dating? My top seven recommendations are available on today's episode of the podcast.  

We dig deep in this episode and how you would choose Hin…

How do you spot red flags on a dating app? The top six answers are discussed on today's episode of the podcast.  

More topics in this episode are Hinge prompts for the Enneagram type 3, The Achiever.…

How to tell if someone is scamming you or are a bot on a dating app? The quick answer is to ask them to spell "potato".  

The real answer is much more complex and I am here to share five signs of a s…

The Reformer or Moral Protagonist, type 1, on the Enneagram is likely not the most creative or vulnerable person on your dating app.  

What are the likely prompts you'd see on Hinge for the Type 1, R…

What are the best responses to popular Hinge prompts for the Peacemaker?  In today's mini episode, I share some of the prompts that an Enneagram type 9 would choose to show their authentic self.  Plu…

Having a hard time picking prompts to use on the dating app Hinge?  In today's mini episode, I share some of the prompts that an Enneagram type 8 would choose to show their authentic self.  Plus the …

In this episode, we delve into the intricate details of the Match.com class action lawsuit, exploring the implications and repercussions of the legal battle on modern dating. Join me as we uncover th…

The top three reasons you may be getting FRIENDZONED are:

Agreeableness, availability, and accessibility can potentially decrease attraction in dating due to various reasons:

1. Agreeableness: While …

On this week's episode of the podcast, Talia Bombola joins me for a follow up conversation to share with you why you may be attracted to and attracting emotionally unavailable people.  Previously on …

This week, we have a quick hitting, solo episode where I dig into this popular quesiton from one of our audience members from a recent Tiktok Live.

Should a woman ask out a man on a date?  Listen in …