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The Break Up Break Down

When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

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Update frequency
every 3 days
Average duration
29 minutes
Episodes
317
Years Active
2021 - 2025
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The step-bro scandal & other big deal breakers w/ Jackson Kim | Break Down Bonus

The step-bro scandal & other big deal breakers w/ Jackson Kim | Break Down Bonus

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00:12:16  |   Thu 11 Sep 2025
When she dated her step-brother.... - S2Replay

When she dated her step-brother.... - S2Replay

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00:35:22  |   Tue 09 Sep 2025
Break Down Bonus: Protecting your mental health in casual relationships w/ Jessica Hutchison

Break Down Bonus: Protecting your mental health in casual relationships w/ Jessica Hutchison

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What proof do you need for a protective order?:https://www.findlaw.…

00:22:22  |   Fri 05 Sep 2025
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When "the other woman's" housewarming gift exposed his infidelity.... - S8E7

She thought she was just hooking up with a friend...until his girlfriend confronted her on social media. Suddenly, she realized she was the other woman without even knowing it. But instead of walking…

00:21:03  |   Tue 02 Sep 2025
Are you crossing a line into emotional infidelity? w/ Laurie Poole, LPC | Break Down Bonus

Are you crossing a line into emotional infidelity? w/ Laurie Poole, LPC | Break Down Bonus

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Learn more about Laurie, her podcast, and The Montford Group: https://themontfortgroup.com/laurie-poole

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00:16:31  |   Thu 28 Aug 2025
When an avocado exposed his infidelity.... - S8E6

When an avocado exposed his infidelity.... - S8E6

What seemed like a clean, amicable breakup takes a shocking turn when a single avocado in the kitchen reveals a hidden betrayal. How did one small fruit uncover a much bigger secret? We'll find out w…

00:27:18  |   Tue 26 Aug 2025
When she divorced him over his farts.... - S6Replay

When she divorced him over his farts.... - S6Replay

'Better out, than in' might be a better suited to talking about your husband when he can't control his flatulence around you. What seemed like a harmless joke at first quickly turned into a marriage-…

00:40:38  |   Tue 19 Aug 2025
He's 'quiet-quitting' the relationship?! | Break Down Bonus

He's 'quiet-quitting' the relationship?! | Break Down Bonus

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00:13:47  |   Thu 14 Aug 2025
When Her Roommate Turned Out to Be The Other Woman.... - S8E5

When Her Roommate Turned Out to Be The Other Woman.... - S8E5

She thought it was just a fun getaway with her her friend group (including...uh...her ex), but halfway through the trip, she learned the girl sharing her bed had been sharing something else with her……

00:49:40  |   Tue 12 Aug 2025
He injured himself in the name of love!!!! | Break Down Bonus

He injured himself in the name of love!!!! | Break Down Bonus

Check out the Personality Hires podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ddda6wKZg7n5sT9oaLSTJ

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00:15:00  |   Thu 07 Aug 2025
When the 'block' button couldn't hide his post-break up betrayal....

When the 'block' button couldn't hide his post-break up betrayal....

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She uprooted her life and moved across the country for love, only to have her fiancé abruptly break up with her and call the cops on her. She was already blindsided...until the 'block…

00:46:46  |   Tue 05 Aug 2025
Break Down Bonus: She broke up with him during a MASSAGE?! w/ The Personality Hires

Break Down Bonus: She broke up with him during a MASSAGE?! w/ The Personality Hires

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00:13:11  |   Thu 31 Jul 2025
When her bakery exposed her boyfriend's secret family....

When her bakery exposed her boyfriend's secret family....

She thought she was baking a sweet surprise for her boyfriend....but she had no idea who else would be tasting it. When his wife walked into her bakery and asked for that exact same cake, everything …

00:32:26  |   Tue 29 Jul 2025
Break Down Bonus: How do I leave a manipulative relationship? w/ Vernique Esther, LMSW (Replay)

Break Down Bonus: How do I leave a manipulative relationship? w/ Vernique Esther, LMSW (Replay)

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This episode originally aired in season 3.

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Have you ever felt manipulated by your partner? Did you try to break up with them, but they kept luring you back in? Abby brings on LMSW V…

00:26:23  |   Thu 24 Jul 2025
When she said her husband suggested threesomes to stay faithful.... - S8E2

When she said her husband suggested threesomes to stay faithful.... - S8E2

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Her husband told her having threesomes would keep him from cheating on her with other men (likely story). She stuck by her man, hoping things would get better. It wasn’t until a life-…

00:25:54  |   Tue 22 Jul 2025
Break Down Bonus: Are their friends wrecking your relationship? w/ Laurie Poole, LPC

Break Down Bonus: Are their friends wrecking your relationship? w/ Laurie Poole, LPC

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00:13:47  |   Thu 17 Jul 2025
When her husband ghosted her with divorce papers.... - S8E1

When her husband ghosted her with divorce papers.... - S8E1

She went viral for gushing about her “perfect” husband...until she stitched the video with a brutal twist. Now she’s (almost) single and stunned...but she thinks there's one person to blame for the c…

00:27:16  |   Tue 15 Jul 2025
When did hadn't solved the break ups (yet).... - S7Finale

When did hadn't solved the break ups (yet).... - S7Finale

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The B…

00:15:06  |   Wed 25 Jun 2025
Break Down Bonus: What you missed on season 7 of the Break Up Break Down....

Break Down Bonus: What you missed on season 7 of the Break Up Break Down....

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00:22:33  |   Thu 19 Jun 2025
When his obituary revealed his infidelity.... - S7E20

When his obituary revealed his infidelity.... - S7E20

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She'd been grieving her boyfriend for two years when she pulled up his obituary one day and saw the unthinkable- a note from another woman. How did finding out he'd been seeing someon…

00:27:05  |   Tue 17 Jun 2025
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