The Bougie Dating Coach Podcast
The Bougie Dating Coach is your go-to guide for bold, confident dating! Hosted by Stacey Bessard, a dating coach for successful christian women, this podcast is all about helping you date boldly, live colorfully, and attract the love you deserve. Each episode is packed with practical advice, real talk, and playful insights to help you level up your dating life—without losing your authentic self in the process.
From mastering the art of flirting, to navigating the ups and downs of modern dating, and everything in between, Stacey brings a fresh, empowering perspective that’s both fun and relatable. Whether you’re a confident boss babe or feeling stuck in the dating game, The Bougie Dating Coach gives you the tools to date smarter, shine brighter, and attract quality partners who align with your values and ambitions.
So, get ready to boost your confidence, clear out the dating noise, and step into your most fabulous, bougie self—because you deserve nothing less!
- Update frequency
- every 11 days
- Average duration
- 21 minutes
- Episodes
- 20
- Years Active
- 2024 - 2025
As a Dating Coach & Therapist, Letting Go of This One Lie Brought Me Closer to Love
For years, I believed a lie that left me chasing after the “perfect” man who didn’t exist. The truth? No one gives you 100%. Even the healthiest relationships are an 80/20 split—80% of what you need,…
EP 17: The Pause that's preparing you
There’s a shift happening in me—and maybe in you too. A divine nudge to slow down, pull back, and let go of the checklist I’ve clung to for most of my life.
In this episode, I’m sharing what it feels …
EP 16:What I Told God I Want in a Man—and How That Changed Everything
Sis, here’s the truth: God is specific. So why are we still being vague when it comes to what we desire in a man?
In this episode, I’m inviting you into the exact conversation I had with God about my …
EP 15: I almost gave up praying for my Boaz, until I switch these few things
You’ve been praying… faithfully, tearfully, hopefully. But let’s be honest—it’s starting to feel like your love life is on permanent do not disturb mode. If you grew up in the church, you’ve likely h…
EP 14: 3 Reasons you should take yourself on a Date TODAY (YES, Before You Do Another Load of Laundry)
Girl, if you're waiting for a man to start living your life—you’re doing it backwards.
In this episode, I’m breaking down the one date that will change your confidence, your magnetism, and your standa…
EP 13: Hey God, it's me Again..."I'm STILL single."
Tired of hearing “Just wait—God will bring him when you least expect it”? Sis, let’s be real: that phrase is starting to sound more like a band-aid than a breakthrough. In today’s episode, I’m unpack…
EP 12- 3 places to go EACH DAY THIS WEEKEND if you want to increase your chances of meeting someone
Are you staying in again this weekend, hoping love will just knock on your door? Sis, it's time to get up, get dressed, and get in position. In this episode, I’m sharing three intentional places to g…
EP 11-Flirting 101- 3 tips to be Magnetic today
Sis, are you confusing friendliness with flirtation? If you’ve ever left a conversation wishing you’d shown your interest instead of freezing up—this episode is for you. In this juicy and practical l…
EP 10 Miss ‘I Got It’—Is That Grind Blocking Your Love Life?
In this episode, we’re calling out a silent saboteur in your dating life: hyper-independence. That “I’ll do it myself” energy and go-go-go lifestyle might be great for your career, but it could be qu…
EP 09: The ‘Fantasy Man’ Instagram Gave You vs. The Real Man You’re Ignoring
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EP 08: Switch Up Your Routine – Step Into the New Demand
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Take your time. It's a necessity.
Episode Notes: It’s Okay to Take Your Time
In this episode of The Bougie Dating Coach Podcast, we’re tackling the pressure to rush your dating journey and settling into the peace of God’s perfect timi…
Make Your Non-Negotiable YOUR Non-Negotiable
✨ Listener Challenge: Write down your top three non-negotiables. Reflect on whether you’re honoring them and identify one action you can take to uphold them starting today.
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Why your focus shouldn't be marriage: It should be You
Key Takeaways:
- Why focusing solely on marriage can lead to frustration and neglecting yourself.
- How prioritizing your growth and fulfillment enhances your magnetism and clarity.
- Practical steps to focus…
Sober from the Ex: Why We Reach Back and How to Stay Strong
In this episode, we dive deep into the reasons why we feel the urge to reconnect with an ex and how to build resilience to move forward with clarity and confidence. Whether it’s about overcoming emot…
Red Flags and and Green Lights: How to Spot the Difference and Choose Alignment
Episode Title:
Red Flags and Green Lights in Dating: How to Spot the Difference and Choose Alignment
Episode Overview:
In this episode, we’re exploring the subtle yet powerful signals that guide our dat…
Dating Boldly in Your 30s:Embracing Confidence and Clarity
Episode Summary
In this episode of The Bougie Dating Coach, Stacey Bessard explores what it means to date boldly and confidently in your 30s. She shares personal stories, practical advice, and faith-b…
Dating on your Terms: How to Ignore the Pressure and Find True Love
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