Ep. 151: 5 Things Men Misunderstand About Love

Love isn’t just desire, provision, or possession—yet too often that’s what men are taught to believe. In this episode, we dive into 5 Things Men Don’t Understand About Love, drawing from the wisdom of bell hooks, James Baldwin, and John Makransky.

We explore why love requires vulnerability, accountability, and daily practice—and why true love is always liberation, not control. This isn’t about shaming men, but about breaking free from harmful myths and discovering what real, connected love can look like.

✨ What you’ll hear in this episode:
 • The difference between desire, possession, and love
 • Why vulnerability is the heart of intimacy
 • How love is a daily practice, not just a feeling
 • Why accountability matters in relationships
 • How love frees us rather than controls us

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