Should You Marry to Avoid Sexual Sin? What Christian Couples Get Wrong | EP36

Should you marry just to avoid sexual sin? In this episode, we explore what the Bible really says about lust, purity, and Christian marriage. While 1 Corinthians 7:8-9 mentions marriage as a help for those struggling with sexual desire, it doesn’t mean rushing into marriage will fix lust. Lust is a heart issue (Matthew 5:28), and unresolved sin won’t disappear with a wedding ring; it will follow you into your marriage. Many Christian couples believe marriage will solve temptation, but that mindset is dangerous. Marriage is not a cure for lust; it’s a covenant designed to glorify God, not a fix for private struggles. According to Ephesians 5:25, marriage requires sacrificial love, not selfish motives. If you’re marrying just to escape sin, you may end up using your spouse instead of loving them.

We also unpack why it’s essential to be whole in Christ before you marry (Colossians 2:10). If you're battling por*ography, emotional instability, or spiritual immaturity, marriage won’t heal that; only Jesus can. Purity is a lifelong pursuit (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5), whether you're single or married. Faithfulness in marriage includes your heart, mind, and body.

Don’t marry out of fear, marry in faith (Romans 14:23). God’s design for marriage goes beyond sexual fulfilment. It’s about spiritual unity, commitment, and becoming more like Christ together. If you're wondering whether you’re ready for marriage or using it as an escape, this conversation is for you.

Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
2:22 The Bible Acknowledges That Marriage Can Help Avoid Sexual Sin
18:47 Marriage Requires More Than Just Physical Desire
27:29 Marriage Won’t Make You Whole, Only Christ Will
33:15 Purity Is a Lifelong Call, Married or Not
41:27 Don’t Marry from Fear, Marry by Faith
45:47 What to Look for in Marriage
56:17 Takeaways

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