EP92: Conversation With a Dominatrix - Squirting, Desires Negotiation, BDSM & Dom Misconceptions Featuring Lola Jean

What is it like being a professional dominatrix?

Do different dominatrices have different ways of working?

Why do we have disconnected sex?

Who is responsible for your partners' orgasm?

All of these and sooo much more answered in this podcast episode.

I am joined by Lola Jean, a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, pro Domme, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting.

We talked about so much on this episode BDSM, Spanking, pegging, impulse control, communicating sexual desires, socialised sexual desire and porn.

The key topics are:

🔬 Spanking from and love and kindness

🔬 What is a fetish

🔬 Common misconceptions about being a dominatrix

🔬 Why you are having disconnected sex

🔬 The different types of dominatrix

🔬 How to find a middle ground between you and your partners' desires

🔬 How to recontextualise our fantasies to get buy-in from our partners

🔬 You don't choose your sexual desires

🔬 Why focusing on female pleasure is creating more pressure on women

🔬 Who's responsibility is it to make you cum

🔬 Why do some bodies find it hard to cum than others

Connect With Lola Jean:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lolajeandotcom/

Twitter: @LolaJeanDotCom

Website:  lolajean.com

Workshops: https://lolajean.com/quick-n-dirty2 

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Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/

For Coaching: [email protected]

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