EP212: What Is Really Ruining Your Relationships! Wounded Ego, How Trauma, Avoidance & Anxiety Wreck Relationships Featuring Quentin Decamp

Author: David Chambers
Published: Wed 26 Feb 2025
Episode Link: https://sites.libsyn.com/148730/ep212-what-is-really-ruining-your-relationships-wounded-ego-how-trauma-avoidance-anxiety-wreck-relationships-featuring-quentin-decamp

Struggling in relationships and wondering why you keep attracting the wrong partners? In this episode, attachment expert Quentin reveals the hidden patterns driving your love life, why good men often get left behind, and how to finally break free from self-sabotaging cycles to build deep, lasting connections.

Quentin is a relationship coach, mentor, somatic practitioner and breathwork facilitator. He is a dedicated writer & content creator who uses the power of language, breath and energy to create a safe, transformational space, helping people to dissolve their wounded ego limitations, release suppressed emotions and restraining narratives. Quentin guides individuals and couples to remove what’s in the way of them feeling attuned to their true selves, so they can build a lasting, connected and conscious romantic relationship with themselves and their partner.

Key topics include:

⭐️ How Childhood Shapes Your Relationships

⭐️ Why You Attract the Wrong Partners

⭐️ The Truth About Love & Validation

⭐️ Rejection as a Mirror of Self-Worth

⭐️ The Misconceptions About Easy Relationships and why real growth happens through challenges.

⭐️ Men, Vulnerability, and Perceived Weakness

⭐️ Breaking Free from Toxic Relationship Cycles ⭐️ Why People Fear Being Wrong in Relationships ⭐️ How to Build a Healthy, Evolving Relationship ⭐️ How Your Attachment Style Shapes Your Love Life

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Relationships and Healing Journeys

01:32 Quentin's Journey: From Pain to Purpose

06:45 Understanding Attachment Styles and Their Impact

10:07 The Programming of Relationships and Love

15:38 The Cycle of Healing and Repeating Patterns

20:52 Masculine and Feminine Vulnerability in Relationships

24:40 The Dynamics of Pressure and Emotional Release

30:05 Rejection: A Reflection of Self-Worth

37:01 Conflict: Symptoms and Solutions

44:10 Understanding Relationship Projections

48:40 The Dynamics of Conflict in Relationships