EP211: This Is Why You Feel Lost as a Man! Repressed Anger, Emotional Shutdown & the Masculinity Crisis! These all hurt your relationships

David Chambers and Kieran Pollitt explore the complexities of emotional intelligence, particularly in men, and the pervasive issue of people pleasing. Kieran shares his personal journey from a childhood marked by emotional dysregulation to becoming a coach focused on helping others navigate their emotions. They discuss the impact of societal conditioning on men and women, the importance of self-acceptance, and the challenges of expressing emotions in relationships.

Kieran Pollitt is a Trauma and Emotional Alchemist who helps recovering people-pleasers heal childhood wounds and reparent their inner child. Combining mind and body practices, Kieran guides clients to dissolve shame, release emotional blockages, and cultivate self-regulation, enabling clients to build healthier relationships, set clear boundaries, and embrace their authentic voice with confidence and inner peace without worrying about rejection and what people think.

📌 Chapters: 00:01 - Introduction: Navigating the Masculinity Crisis 02:30 - Guest Introduction: Kieran's Journey into Men's Work 08:00 - Repressed Anger and Emotional Shutdown in Men 14:30 - The Impact of Suppressing Anger on Boundaries and Relationships 21:00 - Understanding the Physical and Emotional Signs of Disconnection 28:00 - The Role of People-Pleasing and Validation Seeking in Men's Struggles 35:00 - How Cultural Conditioning Shapes Men’s Emotional Expression 42:30 - Navigating the Modern Expectations of Masculinity 50:00 - Building Emotional Capacity: Why It’s Crucial for Men's Growth 57:30 - The Importance of Somatic Work in Releasing Repressed Emotions 65:00 - 🛠️ Tool: Inner Child Work for Healing Past Wounds 70:00 - 🧘 Practice: Expanding Emotional Capacity Through Presence 75:00 - Breaking Free from Shame and Embracing Authenticity 79:00 - Closing Reflections: Moving from Numbness to Deep Connection

Key topics include: 

⭐️ From A People Pleaser To A Stable Mental Health 

⭐️ Childhood Experiences and Emotional Suppression

⭐️ Why Ignoring Anger Is So Popular and So Dangerous For Men 

⭐️ Unprocessed Loss and Grief: A Shortcut to Self-Sabotage Practices 

⭐️ How People-Pleasing Could Lead To Lack of Boundaries

⭐️ The Need Of External Validation Vs Self-Worth

⭐️ The Role of the Inner Child in Your Healing ⭐️ Masculinity: Emotional Expression (Un)Limited ⭐️ Somatic Healing and The Power of Mindfulness ⭐️ Authenticity, Purpose and Personal Contribution to the World

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