EP146: Dating & Relationship Success For Avoidant Men and Lessons From Being An Avoidant & Commitment Phobe Man and Featuring David Chambers

In this week’s episode, you get me. You get a raw, honest and from-the-heart episode about my journey as an avoidant and commitment-phobe man and everything that I have learnt and now coach my clients through.

Let me give you an introduction to me & my avoidance because it might not be that obvious. 

You’ve seen me through the podcast, and my Instagram and you might think - “David is an open-hearted, sharing, vulnerable, emotional guy”.

But I wasn’t always this way. It was a long time where I didn’t want to say how I felt, I’d avoided certain conflict situations, I’ve even refused to be in relationships for a while. I just wouldn’t get into relationships even though I’ve met women who are truly amazing, and lovely and wanted depth, but I was just - “No, relationships that are worth it I want them to go away. I don’t want commitment”. 

Key topics include: 

⭐️ Dating & Relationships with Avoidant Men, Common Characteristics and Behaviors

⭐️ How an Avoidant Man Can Create Healthy Relationships and Friendships

⭐ Avoiding Expressing Fears, Needs, Worries. Down Playing Our Emotions

⭐️ Lack of Empathy for Us and Other People’s Emotional Experiences

⭐️ Fault-Finding, Being Highly Critical of the People We Meet  

⭐️ Fear of Being Dependent on Other People, and Handling Rejection

⭐️ Facing Our Loneliness & The Need of Alone Time

⭐️ The Behaviour of Cheating in an Relationship

⭐️ Avoiding To Take Responsibility for Our Whole Well Being 

⭐️ The Push-Pull, Hot-Cold, Being Mysterious Dynamic 

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

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👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

The registration link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

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