In this episode of the Ashley Mathewson podcast, host Ashley celebrates her husband's birthday and discusses the important theme of being useful, inspired by Arnold Schwarzenegger's book 'Be Useful.' She highlights the distinction between being busy and being truly useful, sharing personal anecdotes and emphasizing the importance of contributing to family, community, and work. She aims to raise her children to be aware and proactive by role-modeling helpful behaviors. The episode stresses the importance of small, meaningful actions and contributing without seeking recognition. Ashley also reflects on how maintaining a busy but purposeful life can foster self-respect, pride, and happiness.