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Volume LXXXVII – The Cost of Transactional Love

Author
The Architect
Published
Mon 18 Aug 2025
Episode Link
https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/the-architect9/episodes/Volume-LXXXVII--The-Cost-of-Transactional-Love-e3691un

This episode dismantles the quiet contract behind many relationships: perform to be loved, behave to be kept.

It explores how conditional love corrupts your sense of worth and traps you in a cycle of silent self-erasure.

When love is earned, not received, rest becomes dangerous and identity becomes fragmented.

This is how performance replaces presence; and how men become strangers to their own hearts.


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