Some more conversation with Mynda Ohs on the "where the hell are my tools?" conversation that you will inevitably have with your significant other...
Check out her book if you want to survive your marriage -
https://www.amazon.com/Fully-Involved-Guide-Relationship-Firefighter/dp/0578494175/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2HDYD0ALYL0TM&keywords=fully+involved&qid=1566540677&s=gateway&sprefix=fully+involved%2Caps%2C199&sr=8-1