Episode 4: "It's Not That Deep" - How Three Words Are Undermining Gen Z

Episode 4: "It's Not That Deep" - How Three Words Are Undermining Gen Z

We've all heard it. Someone calls out harmful behavior, and the response comes swift and dismissive: "It's not that deep." In this episode, we dive into why these three seemingly innocent words have become the ultimate shield against accountability in our generation—and how they're quietly eroding the foundation of respectful leadership.

Host Nani explores the dangerous shift from healthy perspective-taking to outright dismissal of others' experiences. Drawing from her expertise in servant leadership and years of building Nani Media, she breaks down why "it's not that deep" has become the verbal equivalent of putting up a wall when someone tries to engage with us about impact.

What You'll Learn:

• How dismissive language undermines trust and respect in leadership
• The difference between authentic self-expression and accountability avoidance
• Why sometimes it actually is that deep—and what that means for leaders
• Three key leadership behaviors that build genuine respect
• How servant leadership principles can transform difficult conversations
• Practical strategies for responding with curiosity instead of defensiveness

Key Takeaway: Being your authentic self and being respectful aren't opposites—they're partners. The most authentic thing you can do is care about how you affect the people around you.

Perfect for entrepreneurs, team leaders, and anyone who wants to develop more respectful communication skills while staying true to themselves.

About the Host: Nani is the founder of Nani Media and an expert in servant leadership principles, helping entrepreneurs and business leaders develop respectful leadership skills that create positive impact in their communities and organizations.

Connect with Nani:

• Website: nanimedia.com
• Instagram: @thenanimedia
• LinkedIn: The Nani Media

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For more leadership resources for storytellers and to dive deeper into authentic, heart-centered leadership, visit nanimedia.com and follow us @thenanimedia. Connect with host, Danielle Meyer, @daniellekmey.

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