Tea with Dee | Episode 44: Why Change Feels Hard and How to Overcome it

In this bold and deeply empowering episode of Tea with Dee, Delynn Miller dives into one of the most uncomfortable, yet transformative, truths you'll ever hear: change feels hard because your brain equates familiar with safe — even when it's not. If you've been stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, knowing what you need to do but can't seem to make yourself do it, this conversation will flip your entire script. Delynn breaks down the science of neuroplasticity, why our nervous systems resist growth, and how low self-worth silently shapes every decision we make. You'll learn:

• Why your brain loves toxic habits because they're predictable


• How the mind loop of thoughts, feelings, and actions reinforces your identity


• The real reason change feels scary (it's not what you think)


• Why the hardest part isn't new behavior — it's grieving your old identity


• Three practical tools to work with your nervous system instead of against it

This episode is your reminder that you already have everything you need to become who you're meant to be. The resistance is real, but so is your power to move through it.