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T&JTOTW: Episode 23 - How Many Kids & When To Start!

Author
Antony Aris-Osula & Jahlene Aris-Osula
Published
Wed 21 May 2025
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In this engaging conversation, T and J explore the dynamics of relationships, parenting, and societal expectations. They reflect on their experiences with the Oscars, particularly Kieran Culkin's heartfelt acceptance speech, which inspires a discussion on family planning and societal pressures. The couple emphasises that there is no perfect time to have children and encourages listeners to prioritise love and personal conviction over societal norms.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Love and Relationships
08:36 Kieran Culkin's Speech: A Catalyst for Discussion
17:00 Personal Experiences with Family Planning
23:07 The Burden of Societal Judgments
29:18 The Importance of Family in Society
41:52 The Pressure of Timing: When to Have Children
55:36 The Myth of the Perfect Time to Start a Family

Takeaways :
-T and J share their personal experiences and insights on relationships.
-The Oscars used to be a significant event for many, reflecting on its cultural impact.
-Kieran Culkin's speech highlights the importance of acknowledging partners in success.
-Societal pressures often dictate how many children couples should have.
-There is no perfect time to have children; love and stability are key.
-The couple discusses their own journey with three children and societal judgments.
-They emphasize the importance of personal choice in family planning.
-The conversation touches on the challenges of parenting in today's world.
-T and J encourage listeners to ignore societal expectations regarding family size.
-Family is seen as a powerful unit that contributes to community strength.

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