BPD Breakup Codependency Trauma Bond Not Caused or Resolved By Focusing on Attachment Styles

A commenter on a video on my Youtube Channel (as a few have recently) asked about Attachment Style vs Codependency. It is Codependent denial to think that the trauma bond with a borderline was caused by or can be resolved by a focus on the non-borderline's attachment style. Also explained in this episode is the impossibility of a relationship with someone with untreated Borderline Personality Disorder.