Borderline Idealization Phase Its Not Logical or Targeted

A commenter to my Youtube channel left a comment as to his theory or
belief that there is so much more involved in and happening for
people with suspected or untreated Borderline Personality in the initial
Idealization Phase of beginning a relationship. A.J. Mahari points out
how and why this person's trying to apply perceived logic and rational
about people with BPD isn't a part of the initial idealization phase