Introduction to Kink and BDSM - Where to start and what you should know | With Master Cecil and Darcy from The Woodshed

Master Cecil and Darcy from The Woodshed in Orlando, Florida, offered their expert guidance on entering the kink and BDSM community in this episode.

Feeling like you want to leave vanilla for ice cream flavors and bring some kink into your life?

- Learn about the critical importance of consent, how to navigate munches, and understanding BDSM dynamics.
- Avoid common pitfalls for newcomers with expert advice aimed at both curious newbies and experienced kinksters.
- Discover the value of creating safe spaces and receiving valuable education through The Woodshed's in-person and free online classes.
- Future discussions and more insights promised, with pointers to The Woodshed's event calendar for ongoing education.

04:01 Navigating Vanilla and Kinky Worlds
09:22 How to Learn About Kink and Find Munches
19:29 Virtual Events and Kink Conventions
25:08 Munch Etiquette and Community Tips
39:43 Safety First: Negotiation and Consent in Kink
48:14 Checking References and Vetting Partners
52:07 Gender Equality in Kink Spaces
56:48 Identifying Safe and Unsafe Play Spaces
01:09:24 Final Advice for Newcomers

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Resources mentioned in the episode

https://findamunch.com/

https://rowman.com/ISBN/9781538168769/Please-Scream-Quietly-A-Story-of-Kink

https://www.scienceofbdsm.com/home

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Paige Bond hosts the Stubborn Love podcast, is a Licensed Marriage Therapist, and a Polyamory Relationship Coach. Her mission is to help people-pleasing millennials navigate non-monogamy so they can tame their jealousy and love with ease. Her own journey from feeling lonely, insecure, and jealous to feeling empowered and reassured is what fuels her passion to help other people-pleasers to conquer jealousy and embrace love.

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