STRIPPED: Drop Your Patterns
Inviting conscious daters to strip their conditioning and invite Love into their lives.
Tired of dating advice that doesn’t fit? STRIPPED reveals how gender-role conditioning shapes love, identity, and connection—and why it’s time to drop the old patterns that no longer serve you. Hosted by men's favorite dating and relationship coach Rachael Jaye, each episode invites you to stay open, get real, and build compassionate connections across the gender divide.
- Update frequency
- every 6 days
- Average duration
- 15 minutes
- Episodes
- 13
- Years Active
- 2025
Your Brain Is Sabotaging Your Love Life — Here’s the Hack
What if the biggest thing standing between you and the relationship you want… is your own brain?
In this episode of STRIPPED: Drop Your Patterns, I’m sharing a surprising story about how I manifested …
Cracks in the Concrete: Spotting the Warning Signs Before It’s Too Late
TW: This episode briefly discusses depression, violence, and suicide.
What really causes relationships to fall apart? Spoiler: it’s not just cheating, fighting, or “growing apart.” After 15+ years of …
Suit Up: Your 90-Day Game Plan is Here
You’ve done everything “right,” but something still feels… off. You’ve built your career, your social life, maybe even a steady dating rhythm. And yet, the connection, the spark, the sense that someo…
The #1 Barrier to Finding Love (and How to Break Through It)
You’ve done the work. And yet… your ideal partner still isn’t lining up. Why?
In this episode of STRIPPED, we uncover the hidden barrier that keeps you from the connection you crave—and the surprising…
What White Lotus Season 3 Shows Us About Our Conditioning: The Ratliffs’ Guide to Patterns, Performance, and Repercussions
What do you get when you mix privilege, performance, and a healthy dose of family dysfunction? You get the Ratliffs, in Season 3 of The White Lotus. In this episode, we’re unpacking both the men and …
Dear Rachael: Am I Too Nice? The Myth of Women Loving Bad Boys and Men Loving Bitches
In this episode of STRIPPED, I answer a listener’s heartfelt question:
“Dear Rachael, I get the ‘You’re such a great guy’ speech more than I’d like to admit. I have good conversations, I listen, I try…
Vulnerability Is Sexy… Until It Isn’t. Why Men Fear Opening Up — And How Women Unintentionally Contribute to the Confusion
In this episode of STRIPPED, I dive into a common—and often frustrating—contradiction in dating and relationships: women say they want emotionally vulnerable men, but then pull away or shut down when…
A Quickie... And an Invitation
Welcome to a special episode of STRIPPED—a quickie to catch you up on everything we’ve explored so far and invite you into the conversation.
This brief episode breaks down the big ideas from our first…
Why "NO" is Not a Rejection and Consent is SEXY
Let’s reframe the whole narrative around no.
In this episode, we’re stripping away the shame, confusion, and power struggles that often come with rejection, and redefining what it actually means when …
Supporting Men. Inviting Women. Creating Connection. Why STRIPPED goes Deeper Than A Dating Podcast
TW: This episode briefly discusses suicide and depression.
There are a lot of podcasts out there about dating. But this one? It’s not about quick fixes or surface-level tips. It’s about stripping away…
Gone Fishing! Navigating Bots, Blocks, and Burnout on Dating Apps
Dating apps can quickly become exhausting. Endless swiping, ghosting, blocks, and bots make genuine connection feel impossible—and leave many feeling burned out.
In this episode, we unpack the hidden …
How Do I Know if I'm Looking for Love... or Comfort?
How to tell if you’re ready for real connection—or just craving relief.
So… how do you actually know if you’re ready for a real relationship?
In this episode, we unpack what “readiness” really means fo…
STRIPPED: Drop Your Patterns TRAILER
Welcome to STRIPPED: Drop Your Patterns, where we invite conscious daters to strip their conditioning and invite Love into their lives!