33. Debunking the Myth of Maternal Instinct: Why Education trumps 'Intuition' in Parenting

Hey doc! In this episode, I'm challenging the notion of 'maternal instinct.' I dive into:

• Why most of what we consider 'instinct' is actually learned behavior
• How socialization shapes our parenting skills
• The pressure this myth puts on both moms and dads
• Why recognizing this can lead to more compassionate parenting

Key takeaways:

1. True instincts are about survival, not diaper changes
2. Most parenting skills are learned, not innate
3. Recognizing this can relieve pressure and guilt
4. We need to educate all genders equally about childcare

Remember, doc, not feeling an instant connection or knowing everything doesn't make you a bad parent. Let's reframe our expectations and give ourselves (and our partners) some grace!

What did you think of the episode, doc? Let me know!

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