Episode 6: Gone Like Smoke — Impermanence, Loss, and the Peace That Follows

“Everything that has the nature to arise… has the nature to pass away.” — The Buddha

In this deeply honest episode, Jacob shares the emotional aftermath of car trouble, financial pressure, and fatherhood as his son steps into adulthood. With humor, heartbreak, and wisdom drawn from Buddhism, the Bible, and beyond, he explores the theme of impermanence—how everything we cling to, from stability to identity to love itself, will one day dissolve like breath on a mirror.

You’ll hear reflections from Ecclesiastes, the teachings of Jesus, Vipassana meditation, and a hilarious metaphorical lesson from a clumsy bricklayer who just wouldn’t let go of the rope. Jacob also performs a powerful excerpt from Star Trek: Deep Space Nine (“It’s Only a Paper Moon”) that touches on trauma, avoidance, and learning to re-engage with life.
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This episode isn’t about despair. It’s about learning to live more vividly because things change. To let go—not in defeat, but in freedom.

Content warning: Includes vulnerable reflections on financial stress and emotional overwhelm. If you're struggling, please reach out or join the Discord. You're not alone. 

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