If we are stubborn and like to get our own way, this can sometimes lead to us digging a big hole. However how do we know what is right. To confirm this, we must be able to accept the following:
1/. Absolutely we must be able to have a heart that may accept that one could be wrong
2/. Does it fit with what I believe and does it fit in with what the bible say
3. Is the conviction I am holding bearing fruit.