The Situationship That Was Never a Situation

Let me take you back to the moment I caught feelings way too fast, idealized a man after one hookup, and basically scared him all the way off the planet. This episode is about that situationship—the one where I created a whole love story in my head… and he just disappeared.

I reflect on how our standards are built from past pain, how "acting cool" isn't always strength—it’s fear, and why humility in dating doesn’t mean abandoning self-respect. This is for anyone who’s fallen too fast, over-shared too soon, or scared someone away by being too real.

You’re not crazy. You’re just human. And maybe a little delulu.