Why Are Men Spending Thousands on OnlyFans... Even in Relationships?

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 This week on Pepper’s Perspectives, I’m unpacking the deeper emotional reasons why some men are spending thousands on OnlyFans—even while in committed relationships. Instead of shaming men for turning to adult content, I explore what their behavior reveals about modern loneliness, unmet needs, and the desire to feel seen. 

Inspired by this article: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-14581273/tragic-reason-men-spend-thousands-bankrupt-onlyfans-committed-relationships.html

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