Spicy Special: Erik Everhard on Male Sexuality, Confidence & Performance Myths

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Mitch Hartwell, who performed under the name Erik Everhard, was a top adult male performer for over 20 years. He now helps men achieve peak performance in the bedroom. In this interview, he discusses common misconceptions about men’s sexual desires, the impact of societal views on male sexuality, and the rise of dependence on performance-enhancing drugs like Viagra. He emphasizes the importance of mental strength, confidence, and understanding one’s sexual values. Hartwell also addresses generational differences in male confidence, sexuality, and performance, advocating for a return to natural performance without pharmaceutical assistance. 

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