#383 - Robin van Denderen - Breaking the Cycle of Prostitution

Robin van Denderen joins Something For Everybody this week. Robin stepped into the hidden world behind the sex industry. She listened to women's stories, studied their realities, and sought to understand their pain and resilience. Her passion led to the founding of Stay With Me, a nonprofit that brings insider understanding to light and walks with women as they find a way out.

In this conversation, Robin shares her journey from Amsterdam to the United States, discussing the cultural differences she experienced, her passion for food, and the challenges of immigration. She delves into the complexities of identity, masculinity, and the sex industry, particularly focusing on her nonprofit, Stay With Me, which aims to help women in prostitution. Robin emphasizes the importance of outreach, understanding individual stories, and the need for community support to break the cycle of intergenerational prostitution.

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Timestamps: 

00:00 Personal Check-in

03:00 Cultural Reflections on Amsterdam

06:00 Anticipation of Homecoming

09:09 The Impact of Immigration

11:52 Transition to American Life

15:10 Entrepreneurial Spirit in America

17:57 Expectations of Fatherhood

21:02 Understanding the Red Light District

23:53 The History of Prostitution in Amsterdam

26:52 The Complexity of Choice in Sex Work

36:59 Understanding Choices in the Sex Industry

39:50 Identity and the Journey to Healing

43:45 The Misconception of Empowerment in Selling One's Body

48:16 The Intergenerational Cycle of Prostitution

56:46 Legalization vs. Criminalization of Sex Work

01:01:03 The Mission of Stay With Me Foundation

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(Recorded on June 3rd, 2025)

Edited by Ben Rogerson (@BenRogerson_)

Intro music by Residual Audio (Residualaudio.com)

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