Somebody You Love
Jenna Love & Holly Harte: just two Aussie SWers sharing our expertise in disappointing our parents, breaching community guidelines, and banging the people who vote against our rights. www.somebodyyoulove.net Instagram/Twitter/Facebook: @somebodyyoupodwww.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod
- Update frequency
- every 9 days
- Average duration
- 55 minutes
- Episodes
- 86
- Years Active
- 2021 - 2025
81. Somebody You Love advocates for the sex industry
Welcome to season 5! Today we're talking about "accidental activists" and "sex work influencers". What is the cost of speaking about the industry under your work persona? We also answer a question ab…
80. Somebody You Love says goodbye to 2024!
It’s a big fat Holly & Jenna recap episode! What did we get up to this year? What games, movies, and tv shows did we love? What new sexual experiences did we encounter? And what is coming up for us i…
79. Somebody You Love needs rights not rescue (f**k your saviour complex)
NSWP (Global Network of Sex Work Projects): https://www.nswp.org/members
APNSW (Asia Pacific Network of Sex Workers): https://apnswnew.wordpress.com/membership/members/
Sources:
https://soundcloud.com/…
78. Somebody You Love needs rights not rescue (f**k the Nordic Model)
Well, the time has come. We are finally doing a deep dive on the Nordic Model! End Demand, Swedish Model, Equality Model... whatever you want to call it, it sucks.
Sources:
- Sex in the New Europe: The…
77. Turned On: The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas
The film The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas was released in 1982, based on the 1978 musical, based loosely on a true story. The movie stars Dolly Parton and Burt Reynolds and this week Holly and Jen…
76. Somebody You Love makes and studies Indie Porn (Dr Zahra Stardust
Combining 15 years as a professional undresser, award-winning stripper, pole dancer, & 🌽 star with an international research portfolio spanning SWer activism, LGBTQ+ health, sexual rights and sextech…
75. Somebody You Love faces digital violence (Pomma)
Pomma Granet, also known as Blair Bishop, also known as OnlyPomma, Juicy Pomma, Succubus Slut, and a host of other usernames given how many times they’ve had accounts deleted, is a New York-based ful…
74. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 2
CW: Stalking, harassment, sexual assault
Welcome to part 2, and apologies for the darkness of these episodes! This time Holly & Jenna each share another story of stalking/harassment, as well as talk a…
73. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 1
CW: Stalking, harassment, sexual assault, animal death. We use the term “grandfathered” in this episode. We understand this term has very racist origins, and we apologise for the mistake. A better te…
72. Turned On: Pretty Woman
Holly finally convinced Jenna to watch Pretty Woman and here we are!
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71. Somebody You Love wrote a book about sluts (Dr Hilary Caldwell)
Note: we had some technical issues when recording this episode, so unfortunately the audio isn’t at the level we usually like to deliver!
Buy SLUTDOM: https://www.uqp.com.au/books/slutdom-reclaimin…
70. Somebody You Love helps you ask sticky questions
How do I ask how recently they were tested for STIs? How do I ask for us to do something different this time? What if I get down there and it smells really bad? Holly & Jenna give you tips on how to …
69. Just The Tips: So you want to be an Independent Escort Pt 3
In part three of this series (make sure you’ve listened to parts 1 & 2 if you’re new or thinking about joining the industry!), we’re talking about the actual booking - how do you keep time, how to se…
68. Just The Tips: So you want to be an independent escort? Pt 2
In part two of this series, we are moving more into the logistics of the job itself. Holly and Jenna talk about advertising & advertising platforms, dealing with time wasters, screening, getting depo…
67. Somebody You Love lost their virginity* to an escort
Michael (he/him), and Louise (she/her) both lost their “virginity” to sex workers and they’ve both agreed to share their stories on the show! *Virginity is a social construct, but we talk about that …
66. Is Somebody You Love an arsehole?
Yep, this week we are mining reddit for content. We read out the SW-related stories of contributors to /r/AITA and decide if we think:
- NTA (not the arsehole)
- YTA (you are the arsehole)
- NAH (no arseholes…
65. Turned On: Music Theatre and Sex Work
Get your jazz hands ready, we’re doing musicals!
Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/41U6nuxshQciTYfLLnIsfb?si=a50dc606af40463e
Songlist:
1. I Dreamed a Dream (Les Miserables, 1980)
2.…
64. Turned On: Songs about Sex Work
Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/41U6nuxshQciTYfLLnIsfb?si=a50dc606af40463e
Mandatory article: https://www.mandatory.com/culture/1066689-the-10-best-songs-about-prostitutes
Song list…
63. Somebody You Love is non-binary (Charlie Bear)
TW: Shit People Say mentions sexual assault
Meet Charlie Bear, a trans, non-binary sex worker based in Melbourne, on Wurundjeri land. They were assigned female at birth, but currently live in a body t…
62. Somebody You Love does Christmas!
Holly spreads the festive fun while Jenna tries to maintain her strong boundaries around frivolity.
CHAPTERS
04:32: Sexy Gift Giving Guide 2023
20:50: Porno or not-porno?
26:30: Holiday traditions
50:17:…