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The Madonna-Whore Complex

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Justina Victoria
Published
Thu 29 May 2025
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😇😈The “Madonna–Whore” Complex (Explained) 

If you can’t seem to lust after the woman you love…

If intimacy turns you off…

If you feel guilt, revulsion, or confusion during sex with your partner—

You may be caught in the Madonna–Whore complex.

This psychological split says:

😇 The Madonna — safe, nurturing, “wifey material”… but not sexy.

😈The Whore — wild, erotic, desired… but not someone you could love.

✨ Women are either to be loved… or to be desired.

Not both.

She’s either the nurturing, safe Madonna—too pure to want…

Or the seductive, sexual Whore—too dirty to love.

When you’re stuck in this split, you might:

→ Feel guilty or disconnected during sex

→ Fantasize about women who are not your partner

→ Shut down in intimacy, even when you care deeply

→ Confuse love with boredom, or desire with danger

Somewhere along the way, the nervous system got the message that sex is sinful, dark, dirty and should not be associated with love, connection and attachment. That it can taint the value of someone or something pure.

In this podcast episode, I break down:

🔹 What the Madonna–Whore complex is

🔹 Why some men shut down sexually when they meet the “one”

🔹 The exact formula I use with my clients to completely resolve this issue


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