I mentioned my Italian Identity every time I saw "some" people because of the way they stereotyped ASIAN. The ruder they were the continuation of trying to establish a "classroom" I was. Now, define CLASSROOM. A place to make mistakes in knowing with TBI, I'll forget it, but just leave me with a non-triggered (no ptsd) & reliable (makes sense) feeling of neutrality, not anticipation & dread, and you're good. I had the convo about WHAT EXACTLY TO DO. We'll relive that. BUT NOW ASK, WHO?