The word was "rape-y" and I didn't say. It let me know this person was aware & now I understand, how it worked out so well for so long. It's unusual to be with someone whose mental health is an every day check in, but apparently that's women, according to "some" women and when I was told, "I was just trying to change him," I rejected that right away. They wanted to meet their FULL POTENTIAL. It's in an email. Let's find that.