Heyyyy guysss!In this episode, weโre getting REAL about one of the most debated dating topics: S*x on the first date. Does it ruin the chances of something serious? Does it depend on the vibe? Or is it just a fun night with no strings attached?
๐คIโm calling up my friendsโboth men and womenโto ask them:
๐ฅ Have you ever had sex on the first date?
๐ฅ What made you comfortable enough to do it?
๐ฅ Did it change the way you saw the other person after?
๐ฅ Would you still take them seriously?
And trust me... some of these answers are WILD! ๐
๐ฌ I wanna hear from YOU! Drop a comment below: Have you ever had sex on the first date? Would you? What would make you comfortable?Socials:IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castilloTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.shoYT: https://www.youtube.com/@LoCastillo Linktree : linktr.ee/locastillo
If You Feel Unsafe on a Date, Trust Your Instincts โ If something feels off, listen to that feeling. You donโt have to stay in a situation that makes you uncomfortable.
Know Where to Get Help โ If you ever experience coercion, assault, or feel unsafe, reach out to organizations like Planned Parenthood (1-800-230-7526) or RAINN for support.
Consent is Mandatory โ If at any point you feel unsure, pressured, or uncomfortable, you have the right to stop. Consent is an ongoing, enthusiastic โyes,โ not a reluctant agreement.
Limit Alcohol and Drugs โ Being under the influence can impair judgment and make it harder to give or get clear consent.
Communicate Beforehand โ Talk with your partner about boundaries, STIs, birth control, and comfort levels before engaging in any sexual activity.
911 (U.S.) โ If you feel in immediate danger, call for help.