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"You're in the thick of it, maybe even feeling a little discouraged when suddenly someone close to you points out how much you've actually accomplished. Being hard on yourself again, are we? I remember last spring when my neighbor was working on her garden. She'd been out there every weekend. She's pulling the weeds, she's replanting, trying to get her roses to bloom again. After the winner we had."